My 8 year old girl doesn't eat and is careless
Hi everyone,
I am a newest member on this forum.My concern is about my 8 year old daughter. She is very intelligent and active. But she doesn't’t eat. Breakfast/lunch/dinner times are like a big issue to us. We tried all the ways like telling her how important is nutrition and things like that. But it didn't’t help much. She is fine for that day and same again. She is not putting on proper weight and looks very skinny. Her growth chart is below average. She gets cough and cold very easily and it stays for a long time. She is very good at studies but is very careless…she misses her homework and forgets her homework at school or home. She plays with her 4 year old sister all the time and gets jealous all the time.
She gets restless and screams at me. She has to be told about keeping her things properly and tidy time and again. Even though I tell her to do something more than once, she ignores me. She always had the issue of not eating.. but now a new issue of carelessness has started. We took her to the doctor and her health is perfectly fine but she is not putting on weight. She looks lean and skinny and has black spots below her eyes. Her 4 year old comes to her shoulder. We are very very worried. My husband comes back from work in the evening to see the kids and most of the times he is disappointed because the girl has not done her homework neatly or she is not eating. He tells me that he has to take care of his career and cannot spend time with the homework and food. Most of the times I get blamed for the kid not eating or not doing a neat work. I don’t have problem (touch wood) with my younger one. She takes care of herself and eats fast and does her work. I am very much worried about my older kid. She is so intelligent and smart but because of her eating habits and negligence she is not excelling in her class and this is creating some tension between myself and my husband.
I tell her a lot that dad needs to work (we had decided that I stay at home and take care of the kids) and needs to keep his mid fresh and we should keep him happy. She listens to me and she back to normal the next day. I buy her everything she needs and wants.
Any help/advise is greatly appreciated.
Thanks