Why is he confusing? Why can't he just tell me he likes me?
Me and this guy have been hanging out for about 2 months. At first he said he didn't want a relationship he just wanted a **** buddy, I said OK well can we still be friends he said yeah. Then he started texting me to come over and spend the weekend so I did, he took me to met his friends and I met his dad etc. They all love me and kept telling me there were glad we were together and they were glad he found someone like me. They call me his girlfriend.
At first he would say were just friends and a couple weeks later they started saying it again and he just smiles. He told me about his past he was in foster care, and his exes cheated and used him. Him and his friend told me it's hard for him to show emotion because he's been hurt so bad.
Later that night he left me and his friend alone all night and never came back. I found out he was testing me to see if I would do what he's exes did. (I passed) The next weekend I came he gave me a big hug and kept hugging, kissing etc. That whole night. (he's never done that) Later on he was talking to his dads girlfriend and he said a couple things about exes using him, after they got done talking I told him I needed to talk to him and I told him I don't know what we are but you kept talking about your exes and I just wanted to say I'm not using or will I use you, he looked at me and said "oh I know I know what kind of person you are and I know you wouldn't then I looked and smiled and said I really like you he looked at me smiled and said your cool.
And then I said the worst thing that would ever happen would be an argument he said I know. Later that night his dad, and three of his friends (at different times) told me he really likes you, he can't stop talking about you when your gone) why can't he tell me if were dating and he likes me?
And another thing I texted him Monday since this Thursday is Thanksgiving so I asked if he wanted to come up here Wednesday to have dinner with me and my family since I've met his he said he didn't know what he was doing that he might go to his mom. He's never met any of my friends or family (all but my mom) and there all dying to met him, but it seems like he is making something up.
Is he too scared to met them?