I'm fourteen and I've been with this guy for 3 months. Ever since we started dating everything has been perfect we make fun of each other go out with our friends but I don't show my love for him. I tend to be a little rude to him and to every body else I am like the sweetest girl ever, I honestly don't know why. My Best Friend confessed his love for me during summer but during that time I was with another guy. I have been though two relationships already and he has said he will wait for me as long as he can. I'm confused cause when I'm with my best friend its like the entire world has stopped just to see us, he cares, he compliments me all the time, he's romantic, everything is perfect. I love him just the way he is like I can be my total self around him. But then there's my boyfriend he is amazing I love him too, everyone around us say we are the perfect couple but we argue a lot, specially about dumb stuff. Plus I flirt a lot when I'm around guys and him. But when I'm with my best friend I don't do any thing like that its like he's the only guy in my life that's important. I have an awesome history with my boyfriend he is romantic and sweet. I just can't decide between the two. Both of them don't know about this cause I don't want to hurt them but I say I love you to both of them I'm confused I need help.

It's difficult with best friends, because you could both end up throwing away something that's much more precious - A best friend! It could be the case that you date, then find out you're not actually that compatible romantically, and things will never be the same again. Seeing as you can't choose, maybe you shouldn't be with either of them. But make your decision quickly, as it isn't fair on your boyfriend.

X Dani

Only you can decide but it sounds like your best friend is the better option. It sounds like you have more chemistry with him and are more comfortable around him. But that's just my opinion, only you can decide. Can you answer my question too please? Thank you!

Well if you are like that with your best friends then I would go out with your best friends because your normal around him and he is everything you want

If you go out with your friend than if you guys breaku than you will ruin those fun times you guy had together but it is hard when you like him (im kina in the same thing that you are I)its not easy to choose but g with your heart witch one you feel is best