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  • Nov 21, 2011, 08:13 PM
    brokenheart123
    She said I'm not coming back. Don't wait for me.
    I dated this girl for 6 weeks and than last week, she told me we should stop talking, because her ex came back, and after that we didn't talk for a week. When I called her after week, to ask her how is she doing? Is she happy?

    She asked me why is it matters to you? I told her because I still love you, and care about you, and wants to know if he's treating you right, and she said well whenever we fights he doesn't go to his ex like you did (btw my ex is married and we are just best friends). My ex needed some help so I went to help her, and my new girl thought we are still having affair.

    Then later on same day, she told me to leave her alone, and don't wait for me, I'm not coming back. Is she just mad because I still talk to my ex as a best friend, or she really wants me to leave her alone? Please help me.
  • Nov 22, 2011, 12:55 AM
    talaniman
    Whether she is mad or not, I think she wants you to leave her alone. Maybe she can't handle you being best friends with an ex, but that doesn't matter any more.
  • Nov 22, 2011, 05:12 AM
    Jake2008
    You helping out your ex is not why she dumped you.

    It has nothing to do with you. Her ex came back, and they are now a couple.

    Your relationship with her is over, and by the sound of things, it's probably the best thing for you.

    Because she has clearly made a decision, and chose her ex, it's time to consider the relationship you had, over.
  • Nov 22, 2011, 05:41 PM
    mmresd
    I think when your girlfriend says don't contact me I am not coming back, that is a VERY CLEAR sign that this is over. You need to start moving on from this relationship.
  • Nov 22, 2011, 07:10 PM
    brokenheart123
    Thak you guys. I know for sure she's not back with her ex and he did came back for one day to see her but ntn happened after that. He lives 3hours away from her and I live only 30mins away. I really can't get her out of my head. I'm trying to let her go but its just not working.
  • Nov 22, 2011, 07:33 PM
    mmresd
    It takes time, this is fresh... to know that you feel this way after only 6 weeks of being together, you might want to get some counceling on codependency.

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