I started dating my boyfriend in March and his ex found out she was pregnant in February. I am okay with everything and I support him in every way. It's just hard to deal with this. She's in the delivery room right now and my boyfriend is in there with her. She said she does not want me to be around the baby at all unless her families goes. This is very stressful on me. I know he loves me but, I am scared that this new baby will break us up. I do not want this to happen because I love him so much! How do I deal with this? She acts like she likes me but, I know for a fact she does not like me. I need some advice asap! Thank you!

You have no choice but to respect her wishes, and see what happens between you and your fellow after the baby is born.

I'm in the same boat as you. But there is a reason why it didn't work out with them, and why he's still with you and he loves you!
You could always talk to him.

Always be there for him even though you may be angry but also help with him and talk to him about it all and see if he want to go through with it and don't make it to obiouse that you still love him or don't want her to have the baby talk to him and maybe then he will see sense and the girl will have an abortion and you to could maybe then be together

You make a choice. Either you stand by your guy and respect his baby and put up with the baby mama drama. Or you can leave and wash your hands off the drama. Your choice, I would leave.

How old are you? Does he have a good job? He's going to need one to be able to take you out and pay child support for the next 18 years. And as his wages improve so will the support payments. Beans n Rice

I met someone recently whom was a friend for a year and pushed me to go out and get serious, got the love yous and miss yous ten suddenly it eased off a bit . I found out hs ex of nine months ago had his baby . He knew she was pregnant with it all thetime. Initially he said he wouldn't get back with her but would supprt the baby . We went away xmas day and he picked on me for not giving him sex and looking knacered as he put it. And said I had gone on abut the baby . I only asked ho it was as he had visited xmas morning. H wantd to come home and the day was a disaster. I am devastated as he hasn't stuck with me . My advice to any one else would be to stick with it if he sticks by you but mine never and hould have walked. Its agoney and no an easysituation. Depends on how he is withyou as to how you can hndle it.