So I met this guy and I knew he liked me from the beginning. He would always ask me to go places with him but I never did. I was way too timid and shy. Anyway, we would still text and talk all the time. Even when I moved back home.

Well one night we were talking and he said he was looking for someone to settle down with. He told me I'm a great guy and you seem like a good girl, but he never really asked me out. He told me he wanted to move where I lived because he wanted something different. I didn't answer at all to anything he said just changed the subject.

Months later I find out that he had found a girlfriend. I felt extremely horrible because yea I did like him a lot, but distance kept us from seeing each other. As time went by, I would still hear from him. He would call me and last hours on the phone, even though he had a girlfriend.

Eventually, I stopped hearing from him. I would still text him and say how much I missed him and how was he doing. It turns out he had a baby with his girlfriend. Which was even way harder on me. I feel as though if I let my feelings out I would have been that girl having his baby. He knew how I felt about him because I had told him after I found out about this girl.

Did he even care about me? Or was he just playing me? I'm still in love with him. But I have no contact with him at all. A million things go through my head each night. I wonder if he thinks about me or if he would still talk to me.

Of course you move on as he has other priorities now to keep him busy.

It doesn't seem like there was ever a real relationship, just him killing time. More of a friendship and a romantic relationship I think. It is time to move on, you don't want to interrupt the way he has his life going through now, and you know that he is taken and doesn't want to be with you... so why push the subject any further, like you did in the past, change the subject now. And don't think about the what if's because unless you can create a time machine (if you do please let me use it!! ) then there is nothing you can do to change the current situation. Move on.

Im so sorry :( but yeah, it is time to move on. He has a baby now. He has really big prioroities. Don't let this get you down. You will find a guy and you two will get married, have kids, the whole deal. But you just got to be patient. Relationshipd don't always work out. But you'll find love again. Go out there and flaunt your stuff!