Will I ever meet that special someone? I have been alone for about 15 years and I'm starting to think that nobody wants to be with me at all and I keep wondering what I have done wrong to deserve this, am I being punished for something I've done? Please help me!

Pull yourself together! I have been 17 years alone but I stay strong and search. I suggest looking at yourself and seeing what you've done wrong with yourself if anything. Don't come off as desperate is one thing. Show some confidence that you know what's what. There are quite a few wiki-hows to help people that seem to have low confidence. Finding that special someone is not an overnight process either. You need to commit and devote yourself to it and show that you've got what it takes. If you sit around moping you'll never move on let alone find a partner. You need to get up and show the world what your made of.

You will meet that right person. You have done nothing wrong. The right time and the right place. A spiritualist friend explained it to me that way.

Hi there- It is nothing that you have done! MAybe you are not looking in the right places. Have you tried on-line dating? It is hard to find someone out there that will love and respect you and treat you the way you deserve to be treated and if it takes a little longer to find that person then they must have been worth the wait. I am in a relationship that is not good- but I am too afraid to walk away as I have a fear of being alone and also do love my partner deeply but there is no trust. Sometimes the feeling of being a lone is the hardest but as long as you love yourself you can't get hurt! Keep your spirits up!

GNIEMELF79,

Welcome to this beautiful site, first!

Hope for the best. You have not mentioned your age. If you are 15 years and a day, your 15 years without love-friend are not a case, but if you are 85 it is. What is your age, by the way?

No punishment... no no no! Remembers, efforts bear fruit, not the laxity. Hope, but try too.