My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. Our sex life has come to schreeching hault. I always ask for it, he always has a reason as to why he's not up for it. But he goes to strip clubs... A LOT. I know its somewhat shady, but sometimes I look at his credit card receipts. Once the tap was over $4,000, and just last night it was $600. I don't what he can get for that amount of money. But last night he took his boxers off and put fresh ones on before bed, which he never does, and then lied about where he was. I am so hurt by this. I feel rejected and unwanted. What do you think I should do? He gets so mad when I snoop through his stuff so I can't really bring up the tab amounts, but I never say anything and its killing me.