My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. We have broken up several times because when we get to serious he starts to freak out and leave. He comes back every time saying he's changed and he's sorry.

We recently started dating again about a month ago. About a week ago he avoided me for three days. I started to suspect something so I drove past his house and his car was gone when he said he was home. I asked him the next day where he was and he told me he had joined the Army.

This was three days ago and he hasn't made time to see me at all. I'm scared and want to see him so we can talk but he keeps telling me he's busy. What do I do?

Get this guy out of your life because he isn't worth listening to his lies, or his back and forth, on and off again BS!

You will do better if you throw this fish back in the river and don't let him back in your life.

I say wait a little bit longer. Maybe a week. And if he's still avoiding you, end it. Don't stay and make yourself miserable over some guy.

On-Off relationships are a practical recipe for total break ups. Your guy is either scared or not mature to take the next step. If he can't make up his mind for a year and a half the probability of a sustained relationship is minimal. Give it a week like blondie said then follow talaniman's advice of dumping him and moving on.