I having a tuff time with my boyfriend he and my best friend been messing around they thought I did not know.

What is your question?

X Dani

Hi kerriyon,

I am so sorry that you are going through this. She obviously is no longer your "best friend". If you know for sure that what happened is true, could you trust either one of them again?

Personally, if there was no doubt that they were together, I would let them have each other and move on. You will then be free to date other people, and find someone whom you can trust and believe in. You will also be able to find another friend that you can trust as well.

This is likely one of those situations where this was a friend and a boyfriend for just a small portion of your life and you will move on without either one of them.

Remember... a true best friend, and a caring boyfriend, would not treat you that way. You deserve better.

My boyfriend is ready to move to the next level with love.

kerriyon... this is the boyfriend who has cheated on you? Are you thinking that if you "move to the next level" he will stop messing with your best friend? Don't be foolish!

Do not move to any level with this boy! He has shown that he doesn't really care about you. You seem to be having trouble seeing that, and are willing to do just about anything to hold onto him. You said it yourself, that he doesn't love you. Why do you think he is worthy of your love?

You would be better off on your own for awhile to think about what you want in a boyfriend. I would think honesty, respect, and trust would be at the top of the list. You are not getting those things from this guy.

Why do my boyfriend like messing with my best friend I think they like each other can you help me I need to know what you think.

I just left my boy friend house I looked throw his phone I saw neked pictures of my best friend taken today I don't know what to do now.

At 12 you really aren't ready for any type of relationship, certainly not one as you have described here.

Get back to doing what it is to be a CHILD and leave the other stuff for when you are older..

My best friend say's her and my boyfriend don't mess around but I know they do.

Please try and keep your posts on this issue here, as starting new threads for each comment makes it difficult to keep track.

My boyfriend is such a cheater I just notice.

My boyfriend want me to sleep by his house should I tell him yes or no.

Give up on him, move on and find something better to do with your time as he clearly isn't worth it.

Sleeping over the boyfriends house may not be a problem. It depends on whether BOTH sets of parents agree. Whether you are sleeping in separate rooms. And the reasons for the sleepover. For example, when I was dating my now wife, we went skiing for the day. Since this involved leaving early in the morning, she slept over my home so we could get an early start. I gave her my room and slept on the living room couch. I don't see anything wrong in that.

On the other hand, I wrote that before I saw all the posts you have made. Your alleged boyfriend is a loser. So is your "best friend" if she let him have naked pictures of her. You need to be rid of both of them.

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Originally Posted by kerriyon

My boyfriend want me to sleep by his house should i tell him yes or no.

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Tell him no... and tell him you no longer want him for a boyfriend. He will cause you trouble.