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  • Feb 7, 2007, 11:36 AM
    mushroomking
    Need to get this girl!
    Hi, I really like this girl but I don't Know if she likes me. I'm somewhat friends with her but I don't talk to her allot.she is really beautiful and hangs out with 2 other girls. I want to ask her out so bad but I'm way to nervous. I think she likes me a little and maybe she would be willing to go on a date but I'm not sure. How should I ask her out? (give me full details)
  • Feb 7, 2007, 12:02 PM
    saraispiel19
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by mushroomking
    hi, i really like this girl but i dont Know if she likes me. im somewhat friends with her but i dont talk to her allot.she is realy beautiful and hangs out with 2 other girls. i want to ask her out so bad but im way to nervous. i think she likes me a little and maybe she would be willing to go on a date but im not sure. how should i ask her out? (give me full details)

    αww<3 -- well I think you should αsk her to go out, but mαke sure you hαve α plαn. If you live in like let's sαy floridα tαke her out to eαt for supper αnd wαtch α dvd on the beαch--αww... or if you live in somewhere like thαt is cold go out ice skαting αnd then go to α wαrm plαce like α coffee shop αnd tαlk.. ooh you'll do greαt-- αnd if it turns out she dosen't like you hey αt leαst y'αll two hαd fun! I'm pretty sure if she's α nice girl she'll αppreciαte the time spent with you <3
  • Feb 7, 2007, 01:32 PM
    pamela77
    Hey,

    The next time you see her you should just ask her out, some girls like the nervous type (shows that they are not the typical guy). Go on you know that you can do it.

    GOOD LUCK!!
  • Feb 7, 2007, 08:42 PM
    kristynn
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by mushroomking
    hi, i really like this girl but i dont Know if she likes me. im somewhat friends with her but i dont talk to her allot.she is realy beautiful and hangs out with 2 other girls. i want to ask her out so bad but im way to nervous. i think she likes me a little and maybe she would be willing to go on a date but im not sure. how should i ask her out? (give me full details)

    This is so cute... :)
    Yeah, you should ask her out. Why not? You have nothing to lose. + Valentine's Day is just around the corner. I'm sure you can prepare something special for this girl.
    DON'T BE SHY! She's just a girl... From what you're saying, she seems nice. Therefore, you don't have to worry. Just be confident! Girls love confident guys! I don't know how old are you, but confidence never hurts!
    So, go ahead, ask her out in the most natural way possible for you. Just asking her to go for a walk with you during the week-end would be great for a first date. I'm sure it would be nice and simple and would help you become more comfortable with each other.
    Good luck! :)
  • Feb 7, 2007, 08:50 PM
    Nosnosna
    Don't overthink it... that's your biggest threat. Decide what you're going to ask her to do, then don't think about it at all. You'll get tied up in what-ifs and overanalyzing, and that'll just make it harder.
  • Feb 7, 2007, 08:53 PM
    blueshadow_393
    I think you should get to know her better first, so she feels more comfortable with her, then ask for her phone number, then hang out with her, THEN ask her out.

    1) get a few of your friends that she knows and is friends with and go talk to her and her friends casually, do this a couple times so that your friends with not only her but her friends too, then you and her will feel more comfortable together.

    2) then either find a reason to ask her for her phone number, OR when she's telling you something pretend that you have to go somewhere and you can't listen right now and tell her that you really DO want to talk to her then ask for her number and tell her you'll give her a call

    3) if things are going really good (she's giving hints that she likes you like looking at you a lot or touching you, walking close, smiling a lot around you... ect) then you should call her every night before you go to sleep (girls like to know that you're the last thing you think about before drifting off). If things are still awkward call her a couple times a week then progress to every night

    4) after a while ask her to do thing just the two of you or in a group, like go see a movie or go to a game or something

    5) then when you guys are out just the two of you, when you bring her home, walk her to the door and ask her out, make sure you do this in person it means more, also make sure you do it at the end of the date so if she needs some time to think about it it won't be awkward


    Best of Luck

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