Well I have been dating this girl for about 14 months now and she told me about 3 weeks ago that she needed a break so I let her have one, because she is still a sophomore in high school and I'm a freshman in college so I know its tough on her as its on me! Then I started to hear some things like she is trying to get with other guys! She keeps telling me that she isn't and that she wants to be with me but just needs time! Well lets get down to it she invites me over to her house and we still see each other we talk on the phone and text everyday, we still say we love each other! I have been completely devoted to her and been waiting paitently! She told me today that people keep saying that I stay up her a** when she is the one inviting me everywhere.. she didn't defend me at all!! I truly love this girl and it hurts me! I asked her how much longer she needs and she told me that she doesn't know because I am always around her, but she is inviting me to her house or anywhere! What should I do?

Well I have been dating this girl for about 14 months now and she told me about 3 weeks ago that she needed a break so I let her have one, because she is still a sophomore in high school and I'm a freshman in college so I know its tough on her as its on me! Then I started to hear some things like she is trying to get with other guys! She keeps telling me that she isn't and that she wants to be with me but just needs time! Well lets get down to it she invites me over to her house and we still see each other we talk on the phone and text everyday, we still say we love each other! I have been completely devoted to her and been waiting paitently! She told me today that people keep saying that I stay up her a** when she is the one inviting me everywhere.. she didn't defend me at all!! I truly love this girl and it hurts me! I asked her how much longer she needs and she told me that she doesn't know because I am always around her, but she is inviting me to her house or anywhere! What should I do?

It sounds like your in a mess.. firstly start by trying to chill out. It sounds like this girl is messing you around, she wants a break yet she is still in contact. You need to speak to her face to face and seriously ask her what she is doing and what she wants. If she does want a break you need to back away and leave her for as long at it takes her to overcome it. If she continues to text etc then I'm afraid to tell you she is messing you around, and it would be in your best interest to think if she is worth it... could she be a bit immature for you? Good luck!

Look elsewhere never 1 target unless you want to get hurt

Subtily as possible let her know there are other peeps after u... make it believable. For example awww sos can't come round was supposed to see kate tonight bla bal bal is another time okay.

Still see her but careful your just going to get messed around girls are good at that especially when they use that word love ahhahhaha.

Make sure your looking hot when you see her make her want you

Good luck dude and don't get sucked in by her nonsense look elsewhere you suld be stringing her along