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  • Nov 2, 2011, 07:05 PM
    Littlezummerme
    Ex boyfriend madness
    Ugh okay I am single right now because my last boyfriend broke up with me for some S&%*. Now he and her broke up and he is trying to go for me again. Not only do I have him chasing me is I have my other ex boyfriend going for me. He broke up with his girl and now all of a sudden wants to go for me. Then I got my other Ex begging me back he keeps commenting about how he still loves me and all. I have 3 of my ex boyfriends going for me again. In all I have 5 ex boyfriends. My ex boyfriend will not leave me alone no matter what I say weather is from I don't like you anymore to go the hell away. They keep saying there sorry for hurting me (everyone of my ex boyfriend cheated on me except for one) and I tell them its okay but I don't want to date them. I have my 3 ex boyfriend going for me and not only that is I have 3 guys I haven't even dated going for me. That's 6 guys in all. I tell them all the same thing I don't want to date them or I have a boyfriend. THEY Won't LEAVE ME ALONE. Everyday I get a comment hay your pretty want to go out and I'm like no and he is like aw okay. Then when I say I got to go he is like okay Love you... And I'm like No. IM TRAPPED AND I Don't KNOW HOW TO GET OUT... One of my ex boyfriend I really badly miss though. He is the only one who hasn't cheated on me. But I never talk to him anymore. I wonder what I should do. I don't know how to get rid of the 6 guys going for me and that won't leave me alone and I don't know what to do about the one guy I like. I'm not a s--- so I'm not going for all these guys and I don't want them to go for me and I don't want them to know the guy I'm going for. The guy I'm going for is sweet nice and funny. They would destroy him and I don't want that WHAT SHOULD I DO.
  • Nov 3, 2011, 04:22 AM
    DaniCalifornia
    How are they still in contact with you? Break contact with them where possible. They need time to get over you, and no contact is the way for them to do it. So if you're responding at all, they're subconsciously thinking they're still in with a chance. The whole "At least she's still talking to me" thing.

    And don't get involved with this new one until all this drama has eased. It'll only cause more fuss.

    X Dani
  • Nov 3, 2011, 07:00 AM
    JudyKayTee
    OP is 14 or 15, depending on which post you read..

    Now I'm really confused - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...nd-608195.html.

    She is also bi so in addition to these "ex's" there is more than one female - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...ml#post2935783

    Lots of problems here including being taken out of school in favor of home schooling.

    I suspect counselling of some sort is needed.
  • Nov 18, 2011, 09:52 AM
    JLSlover
    What id do is find some one els dating a ex can bring back bad memories and can hurt you again find some 1 new leave them all behind and start afresh

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