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  • Nov 1, 2011, 02:27 PM
    UnsureNConfused
    Confused girl falls in love with another girl. What now?
    Hi,

    Lately, I've noticed that I felt attracted to another girl. I'm 16 and so is she. I know she is bisexual, and that she already had an girlfriend.
    I'm not gay, or bi, or straight. I'm confused. We are not close, but we have great chemistry. We see each other like once a week, and every time we see each other, we'll probably hug like once or twice (or even more). This doesn't really say anything, because we hug people all the time.

    The thing is, none of my friends know I like her, so I can't ask them. And I'm terrified to tell her about my feelings, or ask her about hers. I'm unsure. I'm scared. I'm confused. And I'm in love.

    I don't know what to do, what not to do, what to say and what not to say. I'm falling asleep with her in my mind, and I wake up with her in my mind.
    Do I risk it? Do I risk losing a friendship for winning a relationship?
  • Nov 2, 2011, 06:34 PM
    Littlezummerme
    I have had an experience like this I'm Bi. Okay I new this girl and it's the same situation as you. But I'm not confused I'm strait up Bi. If you like boys and girls then your Bi. If you like her then don't be scared. She can't hate you for liking her. Just walk up to her and start by saying your Bi if she accepts that then she might go for you. If she is Bi theirs a 8/10 % chance she likes you to. I told this chick I barley new the same thing. We started hanging out then I told her I liked her and we kissed that day. It was awsum. But yes don't be afraid okay.
  • May 8, 2012, 01:43 AM
    citygirlrst
    If she's single then go for it. It's always nerve-racking to approach a crush male or female. As long as it makes you happy, good luck.

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