I had my d&c surgery about 3 weeks ago. I was supposed to have a doctor's appointment last week and it never happened and now me and my husband want to have sex but I'm not sure if I'm allowed to yet how long do I have to wait?

Hi Alexx788,

Usually it is suggested to wait at least two weeks and you are no longer having any discharge. A quick call to your doctor's office will let you know what your doctor recommends.

Well I was supposed to have already had my 2 week appointment but the secretary in the office I never made an appointment which I know is a bunch of crap but I'm tired of waiting on these people and I want to have sex with my husband so you think I'm all good? There's no discharge hadn't been almost a week.

That last sentence was supposed to say I have no more discharge and it has been almost a week.

I can only go by what I was told when I had a couple of D & Cs and what I know from others experiences. It is best to just call the office and ask them. They will likely just tell you what the guidelines are for their practice. Your doctor may have reasons for a different time frame.