I started liking a person since 2009 March. We both became very close from that time onwards. I am a southindian and he is north Indian. Because of this reason his house parents never agree for the marriage. He knows it from the beginning and he thought things will change. But in his house nobody is agreeing for the marriage. We are living together almost 1 1/2 yrs. Now in my house parents are compelling me for another marriage. But I can't agree for that. Now he is in tension and losing interest to marry me. I don't want to hurt him. How he can convince his mother? If he will leave me because of his parents whether that is correct or not? What I should do in this situation. He wants both his parents and me

Are you now living with him ?
Has your father went in person to ask for marriage of his family.

You should have never moved in with him, if there was not marriage plans and an agreement between both parents.

In your society if he leaves you for arranged marriage, where does that leave you ?