Lack of hot water when Furnace is on
I recently puirchased my home and I have a furnace that was converted from coal to oil on 85. Our hot water is scalding out of the kitchen sink, but the bathroom on the second floor doesn't seem to get as hot. Now that the colder temps are here, we have been using the heat, and when that furnace warms the radiators, the shower has pretty much nothing hot, and it barely gets warm.
I know it takes a lot away from the taps when the furnace heats the house. But I am still curious as to why the water in the kitchen will scald you and why the shower never gets as hot as I like. I thought that there may be one of those Moen anti-scald things, but when I checked at Home Depot to find the same, the closest thing I could find from Moen to what I have wasn't anti-scald.
So I have two basic concerns... is there anyway I can adjust the water to get hotter or check to see if it is anti-scald, or if the shower head might be?
And two... besides a hot water heater, is there any other alternative for hot water when the furnace kicks in? I live in PA so that furnace is going to be on over the winter and losing hot water while your are trying to take a shower will stink.
Thanks
Cylinderhead