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  • Oct 30, 2011, 05:56 AM
    Trollers
    Why is she ignoring me?
    Hey guys,

    I ran into some problems here and hopefully some of you could help me out in this or provide me your opinion.

    So, recently (probably two weeks ago), I started talking to this girl via text message. I have known her for quite some time but its not till recently we started talking a lot! Sometimes we even texted each other till 3-4am in the morning. We have even make plans to hang out together next week or so.

    Two days ago, she suddenly starting to ignore me. I find this quite weird. Two days ago, we were talking fine the whole day until at night she suddenly stop replying me. I thought its not a big deal since she probably fell asleep since she had a tiring day. So I waited till next day and she still didn't reply me! I then decided to send her another text asking what's she up to and bla bla bla. I waited pretty much whole day and still no reply.

    Well, it has happened once where she stopped texting me one night but first thing in the morning, she would text me back and apologize because she was too tired and fell asleep. After that we start talking normally again. But this is not what happen this time, she actually didn't bother replying me this time. :(

    I am just very confuse in her actions. How could she suddenly ignore me? I don't recall me doing any creepy stuff to "scare" her away or anything.

    Opinions please... Cheers
  • Oct 30, 2011, 07:49 AM
    DaniCalifornia
    Don't get paranoid, she may just be busy. You've sent her a text asking, now just wait for a response, don't pester her. If she hasn't replied in a week, I'd forget about her. Go swimming, shopping, for a walk in the park. Somewhere better to meet a girl!

    X Dani
  • Oct 30, 2011, 04:55 PM
    talaniman
    Maybe something came up beyond her control, like she lost/broke her phone. Don't panic, be patient. Don't be a pest either.
  • Nov 15, 2011, 06:49 AM
    Soulgirl
    She could just be playing you here, and wanting you to want her more by ignoring you. You should ignore her for a while and see if she texts you, perhaps she is feeling that it is getting too much too soon for her. I'd give her space, and see if she contacts you?

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