Hi,
Im 20 years old. My boyfriend and I had sex about 2 weeks ago. We didn't use a condom, but he was inside me for a short time (8 stabs:10 secs). I had slight spotting the next day, probably from ovulation.

The only problem I have is that my period is supposed to come today (29 Oct) and it hasn't. So I don't want to get worried or anything, but I'm thinking that I can't be pregnant because he didn't ejaculate.

And I'm also not sure if to take a pregnancy test, so it's a little worrying right now.
Im hoping that someone can reassure me, especially of the safest thing to do :(

Please, all help will be appreciated. Thanks

Actually, yes, there was probably some early ejaculate during that short time. You'll have to wait for your next period. If you don't get it, take a hpt with first morning urine to find out if you are pregnant.

Or take a hpt now to see if there's any reading.

Thanks. I just wanted to add that since yesterday I've been experiencing PMS symptoms, like breast tenderness, irritability, fatigue. And I always get these symptoms. So I was also wondering if this has anything to do with the onset of my period actually coming?

*confused*

Well, then, wait to see if it shows up. I hope it does.

Please use protection in the future. Several long-time members of this site have used THREE forms of because and still got pregnant, so if you don't really want a baby right now, rethink having sex.

Also if you don't get a regular period, perhaps a few days of light and/or just spotting, you may have to wait till next month to be sure if you miss it.

But of course I hope there was a lot of fore or after play for 10 seconds. But if he had any fluids at all, there are sperm in all the early fluids, so it can happen in 10 seconds

Ok. I will try the pregnancy test, but thanks for your advice.