I have been looking for this one guy to have a good relationship with and he has not come along at all no matter how hard I try.

May I ask how old you are and where you normally do your 'looking'?

Being yourself and having confidence in who you are and what you want in a relationship are good places to begin. Have realistic expectations of what a relationship entails.

Don't try so hard that you over look possibilities. Sometimes the person you least expect to be a match makes the best one.

One of the best ways to find a relationship is don't look for one. Instead, be involved in activities and hobbies you enjoy. Explore things that interest you. It can be a great way to meet people who have some of the same interests you have. Even if you don't find romance, you might find a new friend or open doors to other possibilities.

The key is to keep meeting new people to see what's out there.

It changes from guy to guy. For me I enjoy someone who can I can have a conversation with, satisfies me sexually, and I can coexist with. ;)

Talk about it. Honest communications.

Stop trying so hard.

Do everything but that.

Kick back.