Why do men break up to focus on themselves?
After seeing a lot of cases of this recently, and having been in the situation myself, and having talked to 2 male friends who did the same I can say it is extremely common for a man to drop the relationship when he feels he is not himself , or his job is not going well or has too many other issues to focus on..
For me as a girl this is strange as when females have problems we need someone there to talk to whereas the guy seems to want to be alone when he has issues
Has this always been the case or is this a new relationship issue..
The guy I talked to first hand a few weeks ago told his girlfriend he needed space and didn't know about he feelings for her (he told me it was because he had completely lost himself and wanted to build himself back up and didn't want her to have to put up with his grumpiness and bad behaviour and he would not be able to be a good boyfriend to her during that time)
Question: Why do men feel they need to put their female first in their lives?
We really do not expect that, or at least I do not!