Help me please. I have been with my girlfriend (call her x) for only a week, and I think she already wants to end things. We have known each other for years, but we worked up the courage to ask each other out Wednesday last week. When we first got together we were texting each other throughout the night, now I send her a text and nothing. I know she has free texts, and everything.

I even did the hardest thing to do in a relationship by meeting her family who all liked me. I just don't know what to do, as I really really love her, and if we do split one of us will end up leaving college, as were both on the same course.

I don't want to lose her, please help me anyone. Thank you by the way if you need to know I'm 18, and she is 16.

You are in the same course, simply ask her why she doesn't return your texts.

I split from my girlfriend yesterday after 3 weeks she never gave me a proper reason and I just feel confused as hell because I have bought things for her and I have also bought things for her family I only get £30 as week ema and I must have spent half that or more on her what the best way to ask her what I did wrong without upseting her as we are on the same college course I need help PLEASE ANYONE HELP ME

We can't answer that I'm afraid, you should talk to her if you want to know. Remember to be respectful, it's difficult to carry on a civilised relationship at college when people have broken up (I've been there, but he wan't so mature)

£30 is the maximum, lucky! I wasn't eligible for any at college.

X Dani

Cheers Dani

The best thing to do is talk directly with her and ask your questions, whatever they may be. If you are always afraid of upsetting a female, you will never know what goes through their mind.

LOL, she may talk for hours and you still may never know. Sometimes they cannot explain it properly why they do what they do, because they don't know. They may never know.

I broke up with my ex last Friday after a short relationship but after having to see her in class today just made me realise my true feelings for her we broke up because she said she thought things were not great between us but I think otherwise I really do want her back but the worse thing is were in the same class which does not help.

I would appreciate any help anyone thanks
Mark

We all have to go through things like this. We break up, and have to go about our lives.

Eventually it'll feel as though you never even dated, You just have to get through the grievance.

X Dani

Dani could you help me please I want to text my ex saying that we need to talk Monday but what do you think would be best to say to her without making her worry or think anything bad

Mark

Always here to talk hun. If you want to talk to her, make sure it's for closure. Ask her something like, "to maintain respect between us as we're in the same class, i feel we should discuss what's happened"

X Dani

Cheers Dani you're a life saver

Haven't been on here in a while and would first like to say happy New Year to who ever reads this.

What I need help with is to be social with my ex as we haven't had a conversation since we split over 2 months ago. And nearly everything I hear reminds me of her and we have to work together in college.

I need some advise on how to chat with her and just say can we go back to how we were before we got together, as we were good mates, now it's just a case of hello in the morning getting our knives set, and a few words in the kitchen. Please someone help me many thanks mac 18

Tell her that you would like to start talking again but as friends . Tell her wow I haven't talked to you in so long ! How are you ? Or something like that . If she doesn't want to be friends then clearly she never loved you

Dude for while you bite the bullet and leave things alone, until you have gotten full control of your feelings. I guess you have never considered she may be having a tough time and needs her own space to recover.

That's my advice, DON'T PUSH IT! Just stay polite and friendly, and go with the flow. Develop other friendships, and activities in the mean time.