Ok well its been since July dealing with this problems I have no kidney stone no cyst everything looks normal doctors states, but every time I finish having intercourse with my husband I get these very bad pain on my lower abd... Do any body have any idea what could this be?

Hi jaileenf,

It could be the penis hitting the cervix.If you have a tilted cervix this can happen,try different positions see if it makes a difference.
Do you have a coil? Remove it see if that changes things.
Sometimes before ovulation your ovaries maybe slightly tender,having sex may jostle them,causing a sharp pain.

You say you've had various tests and they were clear.
Have you had... a transabdominal scan... or a transvaginal scan? If not ask to be referred for these to the local hospital.

Do you have any bowel problems?. piles/hemoroids,do you get constipated a lot,is it difficult to have a bowel movement,do you pass any blood when you go to the toilet?

I am just trying to cover every possibility, if you do have bowel problems that hadn't actually occurred to you before, then please go and speak to your doctor,there may be a link there.

I have mentioned a few possibilities, I hope one of them helps you.

I tried all types of position is not while its after intercourse the sharp pain begins and no i don't feel constipated or anything u use the rest u fine and no blood its just when i finish the pain is so bad that i can't move or breath cause its so sharp... and im running out of ideas what could this be and no i haven't gotten a... a transabdominal scan... or a transvaginal scan? What's that?? Well i can ask my dr about that also im fear that these pain im getting im unable to have a child cause me and my husband been trying for 6 month and nothing either and im not sure if its cause of the pain cause 4 years ago i was getting these pain and one day i was having one of those pain but that was a really bad pain that i end up going to the hospital that's when i found out i was losing a bby and every since then i haven't been able to have one

Hi jaileenf,

I think the only thing that you must do,is go back to your doctor.
Explain again to him what your problems are, remind him of the tests you have had,and the out come.

Tell him that you are still suffering with this pain, having tried various different methods to relieve it,but with no success.

Remind him of how long this has been going on,and ask him to be referred to a specialist,maybe Gynaecologist.

You cannot possibly continue in this way, so please go back to your doctor until you are satisfied with the answers and the referrals that he has given you.