Help! Family Complications!
I am 18 and have lived with my boyfriend for a while now after being with him a year. For some reason, my grandparents never accepted me having boyfriends as they're old fashioned and now they're telling people that my boyfriend is beating me up and taking my money, when he really isn't like that! They also wind me up about it when I go round to visit (just a 10 minute walk away).
Also, it feels like my family are obsessed with me, for example, today, I started college at dinner time as a half day, but my grandparents saw me in the morning coming out of the doctors and sent me 5 texts having a go at me for 'not going to college' when I did, and now they want to know why I was at the doctors with my boyfriend!
Another problem I had which has stopped now is at one point, I found that my family were finding out EVERYTHING about me, as if they were stalking me or something! Because they even knew where I was at certain times!
More information;
- don't live/talk to my mum about totally different issues
- my family are nice to me most of the time and buy me things sometimes too
I just don't get what keeps happening! Please help :'( I've tried talking to them, didn't work; so that's out of the question.