I've known this girl for about three years now. Last year she moved from from another state to where I live to go to a boarding school that is two(ish) hours away from me. About four months ago, she came to my house with her sister for the weekend. I told her that I liked her. She said that she "kinda" likes me, but that she's not ready for a relationship. We're both seniors in high school. Last weekend, she came over and acted like I never said anything. I don't think I scared her away. Is she just trying to get to know me better? I don't know why I'm asking total strangers this question, but I can't really turn to anybody else. What should I do?

Just keep spending more time together and getting to know each other better. No need to push your feelings more because she already knows how you feel.

"She said that she "kind of" likes me, but that she's not ready for a relationship."

There you go. She's being honest. Now respect that.

Date as many girls as you can. Especially ones that are there, not out of State.

Have fun.

Kind of likes you why would you want to be with someone that only kind of likes you

I. Understand your feelings towards her
But trust me if a girl really likes you or if anyone likes you they will date you.

I mean you wouldn't let things stop you from dating her would. You.

My advice I wouldn't be friends with this girl I know it's a cowards way out but honestly you will just be hurting yourself
My advice distance don't let her get the best of both worlds
Because you will never just treat her as a friend you will alrways treat her. Special

If you can be string enough to just be friends then all the best

You can friends with her forever, if that's what you want.

Just don't have expectations.

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She said that she "kinda" likes me, but that she's not ready for a relationship.

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Friends only, no love, so have fun but don't expect any more than that.