I'm 16 years old, born 09/20/95, and have had a girlfriend for 3 years now, we were talking a bit ago about birthdays (when I met her I was 13 and her 12) and she was born 01/05/97, do you think its wrong for us to date? I never really thought about it, until I realized how young she was... We arnt sexually active as she now lives 3 hours away.
Oh and I'm a girl also :) so even if we were active there's no risk of pregnancy.

A Platonic Lesbian relationship?

Isn't that an oxymoron?

The "age of consent" varies from jurisdiction to jurisdiction. Chances are that a 14 year old is too young to have the legal capacity to consent to sex wherever you are. So, should you have sex (again, as defined by the criminal statute in your state, (or country if not in the U.S.)), and if there isn't a statutory exception for people who are close in age, you could be prosecuted, should your will-power be overcome by your hormones, and someone finds out about it.

As long as both of the parents agree to the relationship, and there is no sex, no touching, nothing sexual at all, then there is no problem