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  • Oct 13, 2011, 10:04 PM
    vini2011
    She loves me or hates me?
    She comes with me in bike and always laugh at me and teases me. Recently she said that will go out on Sunday and she did not infiorm me about not coming as she was got engaged with friends. Later next day she had called me and I did not respond since I was angry on her. Now she hates me for that and did not call me after that. Should I say sorry to her? Its hurting me a lot
  • Oct 14, 2011, 09:16 AM
    0rphan
    Hi vini.

    If she promised to meet you on Sunday, then did not show up because she was with friends,then it is she that should say sorry to you.

    Your arrangement was already a prior engagement,therefore she should have told her friends that she was already going out that day.

    To phone the following day does not excuse her,you would have been waiting for her the previous day, she should have phoned you then and not left you wondering whether or not she was going to turn up.This will have prevented you from arranging anything else for that day.

    I can understand that you were angry,consequently not answering the phone to her,however I do not think for one minute that she hates you.

    Give it time let it all blow over , I am sure you will be together again very soon.
  • Oct 18, 2011, 03:48 AM
    vini2011
    Hi.. thank you so much for the response. Yeah but it hurts me a lot and she says that she hates me for not answering the call on that day and even I asked sorry for not answering the call. Seems she hates me and forgot.. even I do not want to remember her. But she replies to my message and sends some fwd message as well. Not sure still if she would remember me or really wanted to get away from me. But I have not done any mistake nor spoken harsh so far. :(
  • Oct 18, 2011, 03:51 AM
    vini2011
    Also she had asked sorry for that but she has never called me after not picking her call on that day :( have I done such big mistake and if she hates me why can't she directly tell me and ignore me forever.

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