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  • Oct 13, 2011, 07:40 PM
    s_v_martinez
    Where do you think this is going?
    So I met this guy through my best friends boyfriend. We met at a club we danced and talked.
    Two months later we saw each other again talked and danced all night. We kissed, no tongue just lips.
    Then he kept asking me why I didn't have a boyfriend? I'm too pretty to not be with someone. He said he was nervous to call me.

    At the end of the night we kissed more and he said for me to text him. When I got home
    I never did it was 3 am I fell asleep. So next day I text him this.

    Me: Hey x! I had a great time on sat night hope you did too. My bad for not texting you that night I fell asleep.. By the way you left your vest In my car I'll give it to Sophia to give to Jose so he can give it to you. If that's cool with you let me know.

    Him- yea definitely if you could do that for me I would appreciate it, I had an awesome time sat night :)

    Me- Sorry didn't mean to bother you if your at work. Nice to hear from you, I had a good time too. I'll give it to Sophia tonight.

    Him- your not bothering me, so what do you remember most about sat night? :)

    Me- Kissing... a lot... :) You?

    Him- I was going to say the same ;)

    Me- you a bitter lol

    Him- Literally lol so was that just a one time thing?

    Me- What thing are you talking about... the make out thing or the going out thing? Lol

    Him- you know what I mean

    Me- no really I don't get you

    Him- Us kissing.

    Me- Well thanks for being straight up.. but it depends on where you want this to go?

    He never text back after that
    It's about 2 days later now.
    I don't get it did he get offended?
  • Oct 14, 2011, 12:16 PM
    talaniman
    To early to tell and that's what dating is about seeing how things go, not committing after just meeting. Give it time and enjoy yourself while you do, with friends, family, and activities as the ball should be in his court now so don't get pushy.

    Too much, too fast, crash and burn.

    What's the hurry? See if he chases you a bit so you can judge if he deserves your heart, and knows what to do with it. You don't just give a guy your heart, or your body until you know more about them.
  • Oct 14, 2011, 12:28 PM
    I wish
    It doesn't seem like you did anything wrong. You were just being yourself and saying what you wanted. At this point, the ball is on his side of the court. Let's see what he does next.

    Until then, go do your own thing. Keep meeting new people. Don't wait around, he will come around when he's ready.
  • Oct 14, 2011, 07:39 PM
    s_v_martinez
    Thanks people! :)

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