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  • Oct 12, 2011, 03:33 PM
    McCoyLover
    About my relationship, is he cheating?
    I am 15 years old and am in a relationship with a very sweet guy named Nick. I tried to get him to the school grounds so that I could spent time with him, but he kept walking away. When I rode the bus, I passed him and he was walking with my best friend named Kaycee. I trust Nick and her, but I called Nick and he was kind of in a hurry to get off the phone. He was saying, uhh I got to go, I'm not supposed to be on my phone right now. I was thinking, okay? Why do you have your phone then?

    I am really scared. Is my boyfriend cheating on me if he cuts phone calls short?
  • Oct 14, 2011, 04:37 PM
    talaniman
    What does your friend he was with say? Talk to her while you try to talk to him.
  • Oct 14, 2011, 07:46 PM
    McCoyLover
    My boyfriend Nick broke up with me today, because his psychiatrist says that he needs to find himself. Nick says that he still loves me a lot and he still wants a future with me. How long will it take for him to find himself so that we can be together again like we really want?

    I know I've asked this already, but I'm desperate to help him. I love Nick very much and I need serious help on how to help him find himself very fast so that we can be together again. We have huge future plans and I won't let this ruin it. HELP PLEASE!!
  • Oct 14, 2011, 08:20 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    I have merged your questions, please do not ask it again. It can take several hours to even a few days for the right expert to come though and see, read and answer your question.

    Why do you assume that when he finds his self he will want to be with you.

    And if he is "finding" his self he will not be the same but willl change most likely in some or many ways,

    Also I find it hard to believe that a doctor would suggest breaking up a good and wonderful relationship for him to find his self. So what is really happening in the relationship and why is he seeing the doctor in the first place

    I noticed in another thread you thought he was cheating also ?
    How old is he, I saw you were a young teen.
  • Oct 15, 2011, 08:15 AM
    talaniman
    You cannot help him and he has someone to help him already, or so he claims.

    Sorry but it sounds like a big excuse to dump you, and not be honest that he wants to talk to someone else. Whatever his reasons, forget being together, and leave him alone. Yes that's a hard thing to accept, but I think that a guy that makes up that big of a whopper to keep you hanging on to hope, is up to no good, and leaving him alone is better than falling for his foolishness.

    Did you talk to your friend about this guy yet? She may know something you need to know.

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