Do you ever get over being raped? Also, I pressed charges on him and gave him a plea bargin, which was "Assault and battery on a person over 14".. He got 5 years probation, and if he messed up he would spend 2 years in Middleton Jail. He messed up and is in jail now, he has been there for almost a year.. Is it possible to re-open the case and charge him with Rape? I feel if I know he got charged with rape, my healing process would be so much easier, because I half to live with what he did to me everyday, so he should be reminded of how much of a piece of dirt he is! So is it possible to reopen a rape case after a plea bargin has been taken. Please helpp .