I met this girl a few weeks ago on a singles website. We went on a date and we both had a great time. She considered it a date but I don't. I think a date is where a guy goes and picks up the girl, but we met at a restaurant. Anyway, I haven't "dated" in about 3 years because of a previous relationship, so I am lost on what to do. We don't know a whole lot about each other, but that comes with time, I just need to know what to do about a second date or for me what I want to be a first date which will blow her off her feet. Are there any ideas on what to do?

Well if I was her, I would prefer to meet up with you in a local place which is easy for the both of us to meet up. As you don't know a lot about each other its hard to plan dates that the two of you will enjoy. I would go with doing something that you really enjoy doing, show her your interests, let her see something that you are good at and try to impress her. The date will get you talking about things that you like. Then you will be able to learn more about each other. Hope this gives you a few ideas

rvest, what does her website profile say her interests are? Take another look at it. Find something from that list that you enjoy doing too. Then, call her or e-mail her and suggest you do that on whatever day you want to take her out.

If she doesn't have any interests listed, e-mail her and ask her what she likes to do. Or, you could e-mail her and tell her the things you enjoy and ask if any of those things interest her.

If you don't want to do those things and want to surprise her, sign up for a dance class one night. Learn to do the samba or tango with her. Take her bowling. Take her ice skating. If there is a comedy club in your area, take her there. See if there is an auction going on this weekend in your area. Those are a lot of fun. Find a fun movie to go to and take her out to a nice dinner. Buy her flowers. If you have any museums in your area, take her to one.

I hope this helps a bit. Just give a lot of thought as to what you talked about when you got together this last time. What did she say she likes to do?

My second date was to a billards club, not exactly romantic but it was fun.

Maybe pick her up and go out to a movie or something. Don't bring her back to your place because you don't want her to get the idea that you want her for sex. Dinner and a movie is always a good second date type of thing. Good luck :-)