My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost half a year now. We started having sex after two months together. It was his first time. Now we do it at least twice a week, or more. We plan on getting married in the near future, but could all this sex and intimacy ruin our future relationship ? By the time we get married, I don't want to have a dull sex life. Should I stop having sex with him for now? Or is there any other suggestions?
Anything will help, thanks. :-)

Sex is great. You should enjoy it more instead of worrying about it. There is many different ways and positions that makes it impossible to get fed up of it. Sex should be exciting and not just doing it cause there is nothing else to do. Its great at the beginning but it can still be great later in life. Ive been with my boyfriend for 4 years now and nothing puts him off. We have sex roughly between 4 - 6 times a week. Sex won't ruin your relationship it just makes it more exciting.

I'm just afraid we'll get tired of the same old thing by the time we get married. And he will resort to strip clubs, excessive porn, etc.

Sorry I read the topic as "could sex ruin furniture?".

I think I'll crawl back into my hole...

I would suggest, if the intimacy becomes a bit of a bore.. you can always try to spice it up a bit by being more adventurous. Trying new things together is great fun.

Haha, well we've tried a lot of new things together, but sooner or later I know we'll run of ideas..

I can't talk because I am a virgin, but I don't believe it will. Does he still treat you to dinner and romantic things or is sex the only thing on his mind. If he still knows how to be romantic then the sex should be fun and bring you closer. If sex is the only thing that he does or thinks of then you might get bored with it because he doesn't surprise you. I hope you find the answer to your question.

We both think we have sex too much, so we tried to limit it. He still takes me out to eat, we go to the movies, and even shop together. Our relationship is so much more than sex, but it just seems like we have it quite a bit more than we should. Thanks for all your help everyone. :-)

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We both think we have sex too much, so we tried to limit it. He still takes me out to eat, we go to the movies, and even shop together. Our relationship is so much more than sex, but it just seems like we have it quite a bit more than we should. Thanks for all your help everyone. :-)

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If it keeps you from eating enough, sleeping enough, or holding a job, maybe it's too much. Short of that, I wouldn't worry about it.

I still wonder if we'll have an exciting sex life when we run out of ideas..

People have written whole books on more ideas for you when you run out of ideas, there is plenty of help out there for you, people have had this problem before :)

Good advice, I'll try not to worry about this anymore. I'm sure there's plenty more to do.
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