I have a court order to have skype visitation with my son everyday. Sometimes I invite one of his friends to come talk to him too, and sometimes my sons grandparents (my parents). My ex wife is saying ,

"for someone who complains that this is his time, there is no need to use u're time and put random girls on the camera.. This is not the first time.. This time is supposed to be for you only.. I strongly suggest that you stop putting the camera outside and have your time with your son"

She was even rude to a little 5 year old girl who is her sons best friend.

Is what she saying true that I am the only one allowed to see him or is it my time and I can do what I want to with it?

What does the court order say, if it is not clear, you may have to go back to court to clarify the visitation.

In general when there is a visitation order. The person that has the visitation has the choice of how to spend that time with their child. She shouldn't be nosing in. Its your time and your choice how you spend it. I can see breaking up the routine by having others at times. I don't believe its meant to be exclusive time as she is trying to imply.

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Originally Posted by califdadof3

In general when there is a visitation order. The person that has the visitation has the choice of how to spend that time with thier child. She shouldnt be nosing in. Its your time and your choice how you spend it. I can see breaking up the routine by having others at times. I dont believe its meant to be exclusive time as she is trying to imply.

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The ex sounds like a control freak, trying to micro-manage everything. Tell her privately (outside of the child's hearing), that how you spend your visitation with your child, as long as it's not harmful to him, is none of her business.