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  • Oct 10, 2011, 04:01 PM
    MarissaSmith
    How do I prove my loyalty to my boyfriend?
    Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 2 1/2 months. But we both have nasty past encounters with cheaters and jerks. Recently, he's been questioning my loyalty to him. I understand he's wary about getting into another relationship and I keep trying to reassure him that I'm not like that (and I'm not!) but it seems like my attempts are falling on deaf ears. How can I prove to him that I'm loyal?
  • Oct 10, 2011, 11:26 PM
    Rhyme4NoReason
    You don't have to prove anything to anyone but yourself. If he doesn't trust you, then
    Tell him to go find someone that he does trust. Its only 2 1/2 months into a relationship
    And there's already drama? What happened to the honeymoon stage.
  • Oct 10, 2011, 11:32 PM
    Kahani Punjab
    Merissa Smith,

    Do not run after that guy, when he has no faith in you. Love is faith, and when he is doing such nasty things, in the beginning of the relationship, what can you expect of him, in future? Do not be possessive, sticky and needy. He needs you as much as he needs you. So, just be cool and do not worry about him. The world is big and vast. I think you got my point.

    To say in a word, if he doubts you, dear, it means, he does not love you, at all.
  • Oct 11, 2011, 05:52 AM
    DaniCalifornia
    Sweetheart, you don't need to prove anything.

    This is just his paranoia, most likely stemming from a previous experience. This is his problem, not yours.

    X Dani
  • Feb 27, 2013, 08:23 PM
    im_so_in_love
    You don't have to prove anything to him, if you guys are meant for each other then things will work out and he won't have any reasons to say that you aren't loyal to him. So if you guys are meant for each other then things will change eventually, but don't wait to long because he can be stopping a guy that can trust you and that you know is loyal to you, from coming into your life.
  • Feb 28, 2013, 05:43 AM
    ArmstrongMiller
    If you're loyal, time will approve everything.

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