My husband and I have been married for 2 years and together 6 , we are or were happy to share sexual fantasies with other couples and have had lots of fun , at home on our own it would always be me dressing up and making the effort to have sex and now I have got to the point where he has turned me down so many times I can't handle it anymore , I can never arouse him even( if I put on a show ) nothing happens but when we are with another couple he is hard and responsive to the other woman , thing is we are very very affectionate all the time , we kiss , hold hands , have fun together all the time and get on really well , people even comment on how romantic we are , I know he loves me as I feel it in everything he does , so any idea what's going on because I am not leaving him ! Thanks

Maybe should hold off for a while playing with other couples, until he gets used to you again. Is it a different couple every time, or the same couple?

I can see why this is frustrating for you.

Tick

Hi , sometimes it's the same couple , we are trying tantric massage together to try and shift this mental block he has with me.also we work together as we have our own business so I don't think that helps either.

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Hi , sometimes it's the same couple , we are trying tantric massage together to try and shift this mental block he has with me.also we work together as we have our own business so I don't think that helps either.

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The trantric massage may not be working in your favour; yes too much togetherness.

You are together too much try doing your oun thing get a hobby