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  • Oct 5, 2011, 12:58 PM
    Confuselove
    What should I do? My fiancé changed his mind?
    He change his mind on our big wedding and want to fly to Vegas and do a small quick wedding. What this means? I know that we been having little problems, and he haven't been talking to me. He makes me confused.

    Please, please help. Does this mean he doesn't love me, or out of love?
  • Oct 5, 2011, 03:25 PM
    talaniman
    I think he still loves you, but doesn't realize the importance of this day to you and your family. Or the planning of this big day has you acting like "Bridezilla", and he can't deal with you wanting everything a certain way so it can be perfect.

    What are you arguing about? Are you a Bridezilla? A Bridezilla is a female that makes the planning of her wedding a hard chore, filled with temper tantrums and hissy fits until she get it the way she wants it.

    I think his wanting to just get married, and be done with it, shows he may not like the process of planning a large wedding.
  • Oct 10, 2011, 12:25 PM
    theredbaron
    Well, first of all, men don't usually care much for the wedding planning (or the wedding spending for that matter!). Perhaps he is gettting a bit stressed about the planning, or worried that the excitement of everything might take away from how special and intimate that moment is supposed to be. You're best bet is to ask him (in a nice calm tone of course) what it is that has made him change his mind. Maybe he really wants it to be just the two of you so you can celebrate alone and have more fun?

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