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  • Oct 3, 2011, 08:32 PM
    pixiegurl
    Hooked up with coworker now don't know what to do...
    So there is this guy that I work with, and it seems that every time we get drunk around each other things tend to get really flirtatious to the point where last weekend we shared a drunken kiss and stayed in the same bed as each other (I promise nothing else happened in bed). But now I'm worried that he is going to go and tell everyone at work about it. Do I bring it up with him or just let it go? I'm not sure that I would want the hookups to progress or even happen again because I'm worried about the impact of it at work. Thoughts?
  • Oct 3, 2011, 08:40 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    You can talk to him, ( may make it better or worst) It is true, so there is no reason he can not tell everyone.

    Sorry but if you don't want something told, you should not do it. ** and yes no one would believe that nothing happened but sharing a bed.

    Also you may want to consider what is happening when you have drinks,
  • Oct 3, 2011, 09:32 PM
    sewslikethewind
    Having been involved in a relationship with a co-worker that started this way, I might suggest you do not drink in his presence. You are attracted to each other, right? There is something going on there, and the alcohol just takes things down a notch and you give into it. So either go with it or chill.

    My co-worker and I celebrated our 26th anniversary last month :)

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