When I be receive good oral sex that it has me so aroused. That I have the urge to pee. When my lover does it so good that I can feel a throbbing sensation in my g-spot. My lover would stimulate the g-spot with his fingers for some minutes. Then, he would go back to oral sex until I release out a lot of clear fluid. My lover told me that it doesn't taste like urine that it taste sweet. When I am aroused, my clitoris becomes erect, ultrasensitive (can't bare to touch)and I get a nice sensation in my g-spot. I don't release this fluid once or at small amounts.I release a lot of this fluid in big amounts. Is this ejaculation or Urine? If its ejaculation, could you please explain to me how it goes as a woman?

Nobody knows.

There is no evidence one way or another for female ejaculation or "squirting".

Some studies say that it is urine, some say that it is ejaculate.

If both you and your boyfriend enjoy it, stop worrying about what it is and just keep on enjoying it.

I'm so glad you found my post unhelpful.

What kind of information WOULD you have found unhelpful? Uncredited, non-scientific opinions that you're "squirting" like you want to be, and not peeing all over your lover's face?

Please come back and tell me HOW I was unhelpful, because I'd like to know how telling you the TRUTH was unhelpful to you.

If you can't provide that, then you may not be mature enough to be having sex in the first place?

First thing off, I am 21yrs old and I am new to sex. There is a lot of things that I have experienced that I never seen my body do before. Seeing a lot of clear fluid squirting out made me curious to know what it is. Is it urine or some type of chemical that is released from the Skene's gland.

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the Skene's gland.

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For a 21 year old, you're pretty savvy! At that age, I still had trouble matching my socks. Have you been doing research on this, that you know terminology? (I'm a librarian, so I love researchers!)

The jury is still out on what that fluid is and where it comes from. Since scientists are not usually hanging around when people have sex and the partners don't think to bring in a sample to a lab and there aren't many legitimate studies being done, no one is quite sure what is going on. The preponderance of information so far is anecdotal -- how the fluid smells and tastes, the partners' experience of it, the amount ejaculated, and so on.

Have you found any interesting and useful studies?

Some literature has mentioned that the fluid secretes from the paraurtheral gland. That it has a different taste but it doesn't taste like urine. It also stated that the coloration of the fluid is clear like water

And other literature states explicitly that it comes from the bladder and is urine.

There have been no double blind studies with definitive answers on this subject.

There is NO WAY to know which it is.

While tossing around names of glands and ducts and the like is all fine and good there is nothing like the old sniff test.

If it smells like pee then it is pee. If it doesn't then it isn't. It's simplistic but it is the best we have. As synnen, who is quite awesome, has said there has been a lack of study in this regard.

BTW, you never answered why her post was unhelpful. I was looking forward to reading that.

At the end of the day you have to look at whether yourself and your boyfriend is okay with all this. How does it fit into your sex life. My suggestion is to get some rubber sheets and go nuts!

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While tossing around names of glands and ducts and the like is all fine and good there is nothing like the old sniff test.

If it smells like pee then it is pee. If it doesn't then it isn't. It's simplistic but it is the best we have. As synnen, who is quite awesome, has said there has been a lack of study in this regard.

BTW, you never answered why her post was unhelpful. I was looking forward to reading that.

At the end of the day you have to look at whether or not yourself and your boyfriend is okay with all this. How does it fit into your sex life. My suggestion is to get some rubber sheets and go nuts!

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Exactly... The components of urine that are responsible for its odor... only come from the Bladder (and the Kidneys that fill it). So if it smells like pee, then its pee. If it came from anywhere else, it wouldn't. Smell it and see.

And that's exactly what 100% of porn movies that pretend to be squirting movies really are, Nothing more than misnamed golden shower movies. (porn in general is a poor reflection of reality in any way shape or form)

But there are people into that sort of thing... I'm not one of them, but if its between two consenting adults, and they both like it, then more power to them.

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And thats exactly what 100% of porn movies that pretend to be squirting movies really are, Nothing more than misnamed golden shower movies. (porn in general is a poor reflection of reality in any way shape or form)

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Typically in the squirting scenes the actresses, i.e. porn stars, drink a LOT of water. Enough that when they do 'squirt' it will be essentially clear. It is all about the special effects and all that fun stuff.

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Typically in the squirting scenes the actresses, ie porn stars, drink a LOT of water. Enough that when they do 'squirt' it will be essentially clear. It is all about the special effects and all that fun stuff.

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Exactly! Very often what you think you are seeing in reality is nothng like what ends up on the screen. Porn is really just like Hollywood, with far lower quality special effects. And worse actors / actresses.

Sorry. I only squirt lately. I do it alone with a vibrator and after more than one and a half hour playing with clitt. I do it sitting at the end of the bed. I recorded it. The floor remained so clear that it did not even leave a stain.Just now, though, the one I had just now, had a slightest like whiskey colour, because it is my period days. Still the cleaning paper was like clear. I tried it. Impressive. No taste, a little bit perhaps, like herb water. No smell.
And I am no porn star.
It needs practice, vibrator, when lonely, citt fingering, a very great deal, and lots of practice. Not dirtying the bed is the reason I prefer sitting at its edge like sitting on the end of a couch.

Kisses.

My poor boyfriend just went nuts. Why the heavens is it so important for men?

For the record. It is a perfect orgasm, if you are a clitt type of orgasm. If you are vaginal, it is not what they claim "something else".

Per the Moderator of this forum.. If you make that claim you better be able to back it us with RESPECTED scientific studies.. Until you can.. then its nothing but urine.

Which some people still like...

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