I love my girlfriend with all my heart, I've been there for her through every single thing. I even saved her life because she had very serious breakdown and attempted to take her life. She was diagnoised with sever anxiety and depression she has been through so much in her life. After that we would talk every night about finally moving in together and starting our lives. The problem is she always accuses me of cheating on her when she gets mad, even though I've never cheated on her she still says that I am. I really think it's the mental health that is causing her to act this way towards me. When things are going good we have no issues but whenever she's mad or we get in.a fight she always breaks up with me. I've called her all day and she ignored me, but then she picked up and we got in an atgument and she said she's never talking to me again. This has never happened before, we been together for a year and I don't know what to do, I don't want to loose her I'm deeply in love but I feel like she is just pushing me away. Its like whenever she's at her lowest points she needs me but when things are going good its as if she doesn't care about me anymore

I think you leave her alone until she comes to her senses and wonders why you are no longer chasing her to kiss her butt any longer.

Seems harsh, but she has no right to treat you like dirt when things are not to her liking, and she needs someone to dump on.

Crazy is no excuse for bad behavior.

That's true, but I don't understand why she would do this to me? I haven't been the best person to her and I've said some horrible things to her. But I still don't see how she could ignore someone who's done so much for her

She does it because she can, because you allow yourself to be treated like a dog. Maybe this isn't the great love you think it is, since you treat her badly too!

I only say bad things to hurt her out of anger and hurt, I mean I know I truly do love her because if I didn't I wouldn't be wasting my time on this site

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Originally Posted by ohyournatey

I only say bad things to hurt her out of anger and hurt, I mean I know I truly do love her because if I didn't I wouldn't be wasting my time on this site

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Hmmm, could she be ignoring you because she is hurt, and angry? Seems likely. You better learn how to talk to each other, and stop wasting your time playing these silly games with each others hearts.

All the love in the world won't keep two people together if all they do is make each other hurt, and angry. How old are you both that you cannot communicate instead of hurt each other?

You don't hurt the one you love, that's not a healthy love. If she is crazy, you will not cure her with hurtful words, or being angry.

She is using you like you are assuming. Drop her, she has no benefits in your life and is not that great of a partner to begin with. She has issues, don't let her issues also become yours. Live your life and let her live her tormented life at her own pace. Be the better person and leave now, before you entangle yourself in some very poisonous vines.

She is 18 and I'm 21. I guess the best thing to do is leave her alone while she figures out her life.