I have this vibe that I'm not good enough for this guy I know. I don't really talk to him since it's work related because I'm afraid that if I talk to him ill be more tempted to want more. Every time I see him I blush. I'm afraid that when I talk to him I will blush and then he will figure out I will like him. What should I do? I want to talk to him but I can't

By work related, you mean it's a co-worker of yours? If so, does your company have any policies against employees dating one another? If so, stop right there, and don't allow a potential flirtation to jeopardize your job.

It still can be a sticky situation to date a co-worker anyway, so proceed with caution if there are no rules there.

But, with those things in mind, if you would be able to maintain a professional relationship at work and there are no restrictions if you SHOULD start dating, there's no reason not to talk to him. True, you might find that you want more than he does, but be prepared for that possibility and approach him as a friend. Try to get a feel for how he thinks of you, and go from there. You might even find him to be good friend material, which is never a bad thing either. Even if you blush a little, if you don't bring attention to it, he probably won't either. Just don't burst into silly giggles and hide behind your hands, because that might clue him in a little. ;)

And don't think too badly of yourself. "Maybe not right for a relationship with me" does not mean "she's not good enough for me."

Good luck!

You can talk to him. You're just very shy. What do you think will happen when you talk to him? When you blush? I think if you blush, he will think it's absolutely adorable; guys aren't cold hearted. If it is work related, try little exercises, like just saying hey as you walk past, and then casually build up more of a conversation in the next hour. If you really do like him, you will.

Plus the vibe is bull****. Everyone is unique. No one is never not good enough for someone else. As long as your funny, smart, and nice, you can go for absolutely anyone you want.