My girlfriends ex boyfriend shows up to her job hoping that she was there, then asked if she's seeing anybody, asked if he could take her out to eat and after telling him no, she has food, he then says maybe some other time, she nicely told him she can't do that, he then says he will drop by another time to see her, and he's missed her.

Is it OK that I'm jealous, mad? I don't think anything of it as of right now but the fact that he plans on just dropping by, I honestly don't like. Should I be worried?

I think that you have nothing to worry about he is a jerk and the fact your girlfriend said no is a good thing. Just keep an eye on it and see "IF" it happens again but I would not let it bother me. I have learned when guys want the girl your with that means she is worth a lot and not someone you should risk losing her by being overprotective give her the space just let her know your there for her if she needs you.

Worried about what? She handled her business well so don't worry about your perceived competition. He doesn't appear to have a chance, and he got rejected, poor dumb fool.

Let her handle her business and don't worry. I assume she told you all this so why worry. Why get mad, or jealous?

Its her job to keep her ex out, not yours.

She's doing that. Did it. I would kiss her for that. Thank her. She's showing you.

Everything else cool? or is it just your insecurity & jealousy?

Stop being a busy body. Show her you aren't jealous. One bit.

My girl friend had a visit that she didn't know about from an ex boy friend he claimed he missed her wanted to see her so just stopped by bought her candy then offered to take her out to lunch she did not accept he then tried to take her out to eat outside of work again she didn't accept told her he'd drop by sometime... you guys answered that but today she received flowers not from me but him how should I deal with this I feel like the second time this happening even its not her fault it's the second time and something needs to be done or said I can say that was sweet but he knew she has a boy friend so why do that

Let her handle her business, and stay cool, calm, and collected as he doesn't care about you, and will do whatever it takes.

You can ask her if she knows of you, but never act like a scared, angry child and blame her for HIS actions.

She has no control over him either.