So my girlfriend of 3 years cheated on me with a girl while she was black drunk, and what I mean is she had her panties down and was sitting on floor touching and kissing, while the other girl was "playing" and kissing my girlfriend.
My girlfriend has had a girlfriend before which I was aware of, but my girlfriend said that they never did anything but kiss and dance. My girlfriend was curious before (I guess) hence the girlfriend she had, but realized that she couldn't go through with anything further with the girlfriend, but they would use "toys" while laying next to each other, but never did each other with the toys. I believed her until this situation.
We were drinking at this girls house, and moved to a couple bars, caught a cab heading back to the girls house in the cab the girls (who's house were going to) was toching my GF's leg in back of cab ( I was up front) I text my girlfriend "so she can just touch your leg like that?" she replies "Wow really"
We get to the house, me and the girl are playing bartender I finish making drinks and pass them out.
I come back from bathroom, and they are gone, couple minutes go by I go upstairs and they are sitting done on bathrrom floor...
I ask what's going on, and the other girl gets up quickly like I'm about to mike tyson her, my girlfriends starts ranting about how she thought it was me/she can't see/she's had to watch me kiss another girl (which she forgave me for and it was just a kiss, less then that a pek)/then about how I want my baby's mom back and then she starts kicking my foot. Then she tells me to **** this girl, she just doesn't want me mad at her and to **** the **** out of her.
This girl that she cheated with, she never even like as a person...
I've been blackout/drunk and done stupid things but never really blamed the alcohol (when I was younger I did blame) but went into the situation with the aclohol to blame so to speak... So that's why my judgement is clouded.
1) Do I count this as cheating?
2) Is my girlfriend really still curious? (she says she not)
3) How do I trust a girl who wants to get into shape, so she can have a good looking body like some movie stars?
She ultimatly looking at another girl, yes I know it's a movie star but what about girls who walk around in spandex? Or who are running on the street?
I appreciate any input on this...