Pending lawsuit I might have a stroke
6.5 years ago an unsecured loan with a Credit Union in KY was charged off for 1780.00. I told them I simply couldn't pay it or installments due to a lay off and 7 months of unemployment. They charged it off and I NEVER EVER heard from them again. I've spent the past 6.5 years repairing my credit to an excellent rating. Recently, I checked my Transunion report and this Credit Union listed this same charge-off but reported it as of 12/31/06. So I called them directly to dispute (under FACT Act) and they immediately informed me I was going to be sued by their attorneys unless I paid. Although I did not agree to pay I said I would consider if they would eliminate everything from my credit report. They said they would have to check into it and get back to me. 2 days later I receive a very stern message to call them by the end of the day. I phoned back and left a voicemail requesting they validate the debt. I am now completely FREAKED OUT because the SOL in Ky is 15 years. So they can in fact sue me. I want to settle this but because of their threatening and coercive tactics I do not want to talk to them until I fully understand how to protect myself. If I acknowledge the debt I'm afraid they will try to tack on interest, lawyer fees, etc. I live in Califonia and can not afford to fly to KY to deal with this if they sue me much less hire an attorney.
Questions
What if they send me mail am I locked into to whatever they request if I open it?
Should I wait for them to contact me in writing and then proceed with request for Validation?
Can they get a judgement against me from a KY judge if they are unable to serve me with a summons?