Ok my dude b.day is coming up next weekend, he's turning twenty two... I am so lost I don't know what to give him cause I'm broke, and I am a Virgin, by the way I'm twenty.

How long have you been dating and what are some of his interests?

Being broke doesn't mean you can't do something special or make something. Making your own card and putting your favorite poem, song lyrics or something you write in it can be a cheap but very meaningful gift.

P.S. The obvious is one I don't recommend. The first time you have sex together should be a mutually agreed upon time with both of you aware of all the aspects and consequences. It isn't something you should surprise someone with. Surprises of that nature tend to end up with more surprises later on.