Hey I need help OK I want a relationship but I have trust issues with guys so when guys come up to trying to talk to me I be so mean to them and I usually run them off but I can't help it

Be nice why don't you, and learn to listen, so you find out a lot by listening.

Because a guy talks to you doesn't mean THEY want a healthy adult relationship. And it hasn't been that long you dumped the married guy so have fun and forget sex, or romance.

You will feel better, and be nicer.

It's a 2 way street. They trust you, you trust them... They make themselves vunerable to you by asking you out with no idea if they are going to get shut down or not. Figure out want you need to do to trust a guy... maybe start as friends... just because they ask you out doesn't mean it becomes a relationship right away. Baby steps :)