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  • Feb 3, 2007, 11:55 AM
    blood_sucker420
    What do I do?
    I'm trapped between loving two guys. One was my ex that had cheated on me ,Jason, in the past but we started daing again recently. He broke up with me because he said "I dont have the time for a girlfriend right now".
    Then there's my other ex ,Will, who had asked me to marry him in the past. He thought I had cheated on him with my best friend ,Daniel. Daniel just happens to be Jason's cuzin.
    Will broke up with his girlfriend the same day Jason broke up with me. Bezause he still has feelings for me even though I was still with Jason. All Will would do was drugs, drinking, and making me miserable and happy at the same time. But I can't help but be so attracted to him emotionally and physically.
    The big problem is is that I really want to be with Jason. He treated me so great.
    I love both of these guys. The one I want to be with says he loves me but doesn't want to be with me. The one that does love me and wants to be with me... I don't want to be with. It's so hard to figure out... :(
  • Feb 3, 2007, 12:57 PM
    talaniman
    Leave them both alone as you are so confused and they are too close. Take time to yourself to figure what you want.
  • Feb 3, 2007, 01:36 PM
    blood_sucker420
    I agree. And that's what I'm trying to do. But Will keeps telling me to call him and I can't say no to him. I do and he just says "please" and I can't resist. >_<
  • Feb 3, 2007, 01:51 PM
    talaniman
    Stand up for yourself and stop letting what others want to come before what you want.
  • Feb 3, 2007, 02:26 PM
    blood_sucker420
    Haha good way to put it... ill put that into concideration. Thanks
  • Feb 4, 2007, 08:45 AM
    chuff
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by blood_sucker420
    I'm trapped between loving two guys. One was my ex that had cheated on me ,Jason,
    Okay he cheated on you. So we know he doesn’t love or respect you. Perfect Jason can be dropped because you should not enjoy being cheated on or put up with it.

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by blood_sucker420
    in the past but we started daing again recently. He broke up with me because he said "I dont have the time for a girlfriend right now".
    Jason lied. He broke up with you because he was getting some from another girl. Then when that ended he came back to you because you believe all his lies. Give him time and he’ll leave again.

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    Originally Posted by blood_sucker420
    Then there's my other ex ,Will, who had asked me to marry him in the past.
    Just out of curiosity how old are you? You just seem much too young to be married.

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by blood_sucker420
    He thought i had cheated on him with my best friend ,Daniel. Daniel just happens to be Jason's cuzin.
    Of course. I saw a TV show like this once.

    So Will thought you cheated on him but he has no problem coming back to you now? What does that say about Will’s character and personality?

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    Originally Posted by blood_sucker420
    Will broke up with his gf the same day Jason broke up with me.
    Seriously are you in love with the drama or these two guys? My money is on the drama.

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by blood_sucker420
    Bezause he still has feelings for me even though i was still with Jason.
    Will is lying too. Will had a girlfriend but dumped her to go back to someone that he thinks was cheating on Daniel, Jason’s cousin? Why would Will do that?

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by blood_sucker420
    All Will would do was drugs, drinking, and making me miserable and happy at the same time.
    He’s not the only doing drugs is he little miss 420. The reason he makes you feel happy and miserable at the same time is related to the drug use.

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    Originally Posted by blood_sucker420
    But i can't help but be so attracted to him emotionally and physically.
    Maybe you can’t help be attracted to him but you can CHOOSE to rid yourself of him. I find Pam Anderson incredibly attractive but I wouldn’t get near her by choice.

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by blood_sucker420
    The big problem is is that i really want to be with Jason. He treated me so great.
    Yeah he really did, didn’t he. Remember that time he had sex with another girl. That was so thoughtful.

    He’s a cheater. He’s a user. He doesn’t respect you. He doesn’t like you. For you own sake drop him.

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    Originally Posted by blood_sucker420
    I love both of these guys.
    You love the drama both these guys bring you.

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by blood_sucker420
    The one i want to be with says he loves me but doesnt want to be with me. The one that does love me and wants to be with me... i dont want to be with. It's so hard to figure out... :(
    You need to get rid of both of these losers. And never invite them back into your life. Neither of them love you and neither of them even like you.
  • Feb 4, 2007, 09:58 AM
    ej_sad
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by blood_sucker420
    I'm trapped between loving two guys. One was my ex that had cheated on me ,Jason, in the past but we started daing again recently. He broke up with me because he said "I dont have the time for a girlfriend right now".
    Then there's my other ex ,Will, who had asked me to marry him in the past. He thought i had cheated on him with my best friend ,Daniel. Daniel just happens to be Jason's cuzin.
    Will broke up with his gf the same day Jason broke up with me. Bezause he still has feelings for me even though i was still with Jason. All Will would do was drugs, drinking, and making me miserable and happy at the same time. But i can't help but be so attracted to him emotionally and physically.
    The big problem is is that i really want to be with Jason. He treated me so great.
    I love both of these guys. The one i want to be with says he loves me but doesnt want to be with me. The one that does love me and wants to be with me... i dont want to be with. It's so hard to figure out... :(
    I'd say... wait! If they come back after you you can try again but if they don't... just think about it... are they really worth it?
  • Feb 4, 2007, 01:50 PM
    blood_sucker420
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by chuff
    Okay he cheated on you. So we know he doesn’t love or respect you. Perfect Jason can be dropped because you should not enjoy being cheated on or put up with it.



    Jason lied. He broke up with you because he was getting some from another girl. Then when that ended he came back to you because you believe all his lies. Give him time and he’ll leave again.



    Just out of curiosity how old are you? You just seem much too young to be married.



    Of course. I saw a tv show like this once.

    So Will thought you cheated on him but he has no problem coming back to you now? What does that say about Will’s character and personality?



    Seriously are you in love with the drama or these two guys? My money is on the drama.



    Will is lying too. Will had a girlfriend but dumped her to go back to someone that he thinks was cheating on Daniel, Jason’s cousin? Why would Will do that?



    He’s not the only doing drugs is he lil miss 420. The reason he makes you feel happy and miserable at the same time is related to the drug use.



    Maybe you can’t help be attracted to him but you can CHOOSE to rid yourself of him. I find Pam Anderson incredibly attractive but I wouldn’t get near her by choice.



    Yeah he really did, didn’t he. Remember that time he had sex with another girl. That was so thoughtful.

    He’s a cheater. He’s a user. He doesn’t respect you. He doesn’t like you. For you own sake drop him.



    You love the drama both these guys bring you.



    You need to get rid of both of these losers. And never invite them back into your life. Neither of them love you and neither of them even like you.
    You're not them so you wouldn't know if they do or not. I don't do drugs thank youvery much. And I never have. I think they're stupid. FYI don't judge someone by their sn. 420 is my bad luck number and I'm trying to un-jynx myself. I didn't ask for a lecture. If you're going to just bring me down and make it like all of this is my fault I don't need an answer from you. The rest of these people accually had good advice and has helped me. I don't need crap from someone I don't even know to make me feel worse. Don't reply and don't write back. GOOD DAY
  • Feb 4, 2007, 01:58 PM
    blood_sucker420
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by ej_sad
    i'd say....wait!! if they come back after you you can try again but if they dont ...just think about it...are they really worth it??
    That's what I'm doing now. Your advice is some I can accually do. The others weren't much help. Especially the last one. Thanks

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