Hey I am a 20 year female who has been talking to a man who is a relationship I really like him and I know he is not going to leave her but he all I think about we had sex for the first time yesterday and I really loved it can you please tell me what to do because I don't want to get my feelings involved when I know at the end of the day I am be the one who is left hurt

He is in a relationship with someone else already. That makes him off limits. You have no business sleeping with him. It's time to end your role in this relationship all together.

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Originally Posted by brownsugar20

Hey I am a 20 year female who has been talking to a man who is a relationship I really like him and I know he is not going to leave her but he all I think about we had sex for the first time yesterday and I really loved it can you please tell me what to do because I don't want to get my feelings involved when I know at the end of the day I am be the one who is left hurt

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You already got your feelings involved by sleeping with a man who is already taken and in a relationship.

At the end of the day the one will be hurt the most is his girlfriend, but you nor him took that into consideration.

Hey you guys I understand where you coming from we used to be friends in high school and he always had a thing for me but in the pass I have tried to leave him alone and he always seem to find his way back into my life I know what I did was wrong so today when he called I told him we don't that we just need to leave each other alone and get got mad with me and told me I played with his feelings

You did the right thing. Now you just have to stand your ground and not listen to his nonsense. You're both adults and you both knew what you were doing, he doesn't get to play that card and try to mess with you now. He was just as much responsible, the difference now is that you're willing to be the bigger person and he isn't.

He is trying to turn it around and tell you that your playing with his feelings. He has the gull. Do not buy into that okay. You need to be firm and tell him it will never happen again. He has played with his girlfriends feelings but does not seem to matter much.

Like my signature says though it takes two to tango. So for your own sake I hope your right about staying away. You yourself said he will not leave his girlfriend that you already know that.

I even put his number on my block list & thank you for listening and trying to help me with my problem