My girlfriend of 3 yrs just broke up with me. Im 25 and she's 27.. with out getting into too many details lets just say that I messed up bad and was given many chances to change and never took advantage of them. Now that she's gone I truly miss her.like they say "you dont appreciate something till its gone".. she's made it pretty clear that she's not coming back and believe me I've tried calling her over and over till I realized that it was doing more harm than good. Its only been 7 days and I miss her like hell but should I fight for her or should I just let her go hoping that she will come back to me... but I fear she won't

First of all when you ask a question and you want us to be able to answer it to the best of our ability. You need to get into details.

You should let her go. If she does not come back to you then it was not really meant to be in the first place.

The more you fight, the more you try to hold on as you well know now the farther you push her away.

Joe

I guess you just answered your own question.. contacting her is doing more harm than good, so cut it out. Accept that she won't ever have you back again, and then start cutting her from your life (I know this is hard but.. ) - make a list of things you always couldn't stand about her and be glad that you don't have to face it anymore. If you get the urge to contact her, call other people and talk about it with them instead. It's useless to try to not think about it now because it's impossible, so talk about it by all means, but not to her.

Sorry for the loss dude... but seriously being single isn't all that bad..

Accept that she is gone and work on your own habits that pushed her away. Find your own happiness with out her and enjoy the single life. Leave her completely alone.