I've been looking for a music video on the net for years which I heard like 10-15 years ago on VH1.

The video is from a range of late 70s to early 90s (80s-early 90s the most probable). It's either completely or partly shot in black and white. I think it is a ballad (it wasn't a fast song at least). It might be some sort of hair band that wrote the song. The singer had dark/black hair, had some feminine facial features (mostly sure it was a male singer) and wore a hat in the video. At one or several occasions in the video he sang into a telephone to a blonde (I think she was) girl which is shown to listen on the other side.
The singer/band might have been located at a rehearsal hall, some sort of theater stage or an apartment.
And I think the chours contained something like "I only want to be with you" (might as well been the verse).

Sorry for the lack of sure information. I'd appreciate any help.