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  • Sep 10, 2011, 11:30 AM
    lauren12
    Can I get pregnant ?
    Me and my boyfriend had sex without condom.but when sperms were about to come.he took sperms out on my stomach.then after washing penis with water.we went for second round.but second time we did not take out sperms.we used condom for less time.most of the sex we had without it.can I get pregnant ?
  • Sep 10, 2011, 11:32 AM
    Wondergirl
    Yes, you can. You may be pregnant already.
  • Sep 10, 2011, 11:54 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    Having sex like this is very likely to make you pregnant,
    1. either you are very young and don't have any idea about sex or your first language is not english.

    2. any sex even with a condom can get you pregnant, a condom merely reduces the chances but it is not 100 percent.

    3. Withdrawal ( taking it out) does not stop all the sperm, there are plenty of sperm in all the early fluids.

    So yes you may well already be pregnant, now you will have to wait and see.
  • Sep 10, 2011, 11:59 AM
    joypulv
    1. - Condoms fail about 29% of the time.
    2. - Sperm leaks out even before orgasm. All you need is one tiny drop too small to see.
    3. - Having sex a second time right after the first doesn't mean there's no sperm or even less sperm.
    Think of how many MILLIONS of those little eager wiggly sperm there are. Your egg only needs ONE.
  • Sep 10, 2011, 02:15 PM
    hauntinghelper
    Don't these things get taught in school anymore? I mean come on...
  • Sep 10, 2011, 03:20 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    The term "sperms out of my stomach" almost scares me to death, how old is this child, 10 or 11 ? I would hope that any older know most about sex than this

    I am saying this not being rude, but with deep concern. I hope it is more a matter of culture or language the OP is having.
  • Sep 10, 2011, 04:07 PM
    hauntinghelper
    Yeah, really... that was my concern as well!
  • Sep 10, 2011, 04:12 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    The term "sperms out of my stomach" almost scares me to death, how old is this child, 10 or 11 ? I would hope that any older know most about sex than this

    The OP said, "he took sperms out on my stomach." In other words, he ejaculated on her stomach, not inside her.

    lauren12: Me and my boyfriend had sex without condom.but when sperms were about to come.he took sperms out on my stomach.then after washing penis with water.we went for second round.but second time we did not take out sperms.we used condom for less time.most of the sex we had without it.can I get pregnant ?

    WG translation: My boyfriend and I had sex without using a condom. When he was ready to come, he ejaculated on my stomach (instead of inside me). After he washed his penis with water, we went for a second round, but for the second time, he stayed inside me. Most of the time, we have sex without using a condom. Can I get pregnant ?
  • Sep 10, 2011, 05:19 PM
    hauntinghelper
    Well, yes I was aware of what she meant. My concern about age was more towards her general grammar and sentence structure. That gives me the impression she is way to young to be experimenting sexually. It just scares me what kids are doing these days. To not understand sex enough to the degree where you don't really know how easy it is to get pregnant just baffles me.
  • Sep 10, 2011, 05:23 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    Yes agreed, it is not really what was said, but how, ( a issue with have if OP post would be seriously edited) I am concerned of a very underage person having sex which if is the case needs to be address also

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